As we usher in the new year, let us take a moment to reflect on the year that has past. This year was full of ups and downs for me but I am grateful for every single moment. The year began with the realization my child would graduate high school and ended with my kid just finished his first semester of college but there was so much that happened in between. A really big birthday. Oh Lawd, y'all wouldn't believe how old I am if I told ya. I don't know if that's a good thing or not but I'm getting up there. The late night text saying "She may not make it" and the realization even if you caught the 1st flight there you would not have made it in time to say "I love you". Then hearing "She's gone". The rush to visit your best friend's bedside and your last words being "I love you". I didn't want to make that mistake again. Being mature enough to ask her to tell them what's going on and walking away ...